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We don’t attract what we want, we attract what we are

We don’t attract what we want, we attract what we are

October 04, 20232 min read

I’ve written blogs, articles, and even wrote a book. I’ve shared my thoughts on podcasts and facilitated social gatherings, all with a singular, paramount message: Change comes from within!

Whether you find yourself in a relationship and wrestling with the decision of whether to persevere or part ways, you’re at the initial stage of a love connection, nurturing the hope of it evolving into a lifelong partnership, or perhaps you’re single, grappling with feelings of solitude and frustration while observing others find love. Whatever the situation or phase of your life is right now, KNOW THIS – You have the power within you!

If a transformative change is necessary, you are the one who holds the power to initiate that change. What you set in motion within your inner world has the capacity to send forth beautiful ripples, extending from your personal universe into the world beyond. These ripples touch the lives and souls of those around you, ultimately contributing to a global shift towards positivity and collective human betterment.

You can be the forerunner of change by introspection and evolution of your inner world. Just envision a world where each of us tends to our internal landscape, addressing the pain and trauma, that most of us carry, and healing these wounds. Imagine if every one of us embraced the truth that we are the architects of the life we live.

There are always external forces that impact us, for certain the circumstances can be tough, and while it is tempting to fall victim to them and feel sorry for ourselves, we should make an effort to undertake the necessary internal work. This work encompasses an evaluation of your belief system, an examination of your relationship model, an authentic revelation of your desires and deal-breakers in relationships, and a commitment to communicate these with integrity, while firmly establishing healthy boundaries and refusing to accept anything less. In a world where everyone embraced these principles, our world would be transformed into a brighter, more loving place than it is today.

You hold the power to induce a transformative shift in your life, to manifest a positive change, and to venture beyond your comfort zone. It can be challenging to embark on this journey solo. If you seek guidance, reach out to me, and I will provide you with the coaching to help you attain your fullest potential.

But remember, the power ultimately resides within you.

The pivotal moment arises when you become the embodiment of what you aspire to have in your life. When you begin to radiate the energy that precisely attracts the people you desire, you pave the path to discovering love—first within yourself and subsequently with a partner and the people around you.

Remember this: We don’t attract what we want; we attract what we are

You deserve a deep and loving connection, but a solid foundation must be built within yourself first.

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Irena Polyakova

Irena, a passionate Life and Relationship Coach on a mission to transform the statistics on loneliness. With a deep-rooted desire to help people find love within themselves and in a healthy relationship, she draws upon her own experiences and a wealth of knowledge acquired through rigorous academic and life education.

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